10 Things to Have Ready Before You Die
Facing the end of life is something most of us would rather put off thinking about — yet preparing ahead can bring comfort, clarity, and even a deeper sense of connection with those we love. At End of Life Planning Services, we believe that planning isn’t just about documents and logistics, but about creating peace for yourself and your family. In this post, we’re sharing 10 of the most essential things to have ready before you die — a thoughtful blend of practical tools and soulful reflections to help you step into life’s final chapter with courage, grace, and peace of mind.
Preparing for the end of life isn’t about fearing death — it’s about giving yourself and your loved ones the gift of ease, clarity, and peace when it matters most. These ten essentials can serve as a guide, but you don’t have to walk the path alone. At End of Life Planning Services, we’re here to support you with tools, guidance, and compassionate expertise every step of the way. When you’re ready, reach out to us and begin creating a plan that truly reflects your wishes and values.
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Here are 10 of the most essential things to have in order when you are facing the end of life — not just for practical reasons but to bring peace, clarity and connection in your final chapter:
1. Advance Care Directive
A document of your medical wishes, especially around life support, resuscitation (DNR Do Not Resuscitate /DNI Do Not Intubate), and pain management. It tells others what you want when you can’t speak for yourself,
2. Healthcare Proxy or Medical Durable Power of Attorney
A type of advance care directive that designates someone you trust to make medical decisions on your behalf if you’re unable to do so. The individual designated as the MDPOA becomes your advocate in interacting with health care providers.
3. A Will or Trust
Provides for the distribution of your assets, belongings, family treasures, and property — and alleviates confusion or disputes among loved ones and beneficiaries.
4. List of Accounts & Passwords
The creation of a secure document or password manager that lists online accounts, logins, and subscriptions can save loved ones time and stress.
5. Legacy Messages or Letters
Personal notes, recordings or videos for loved ones can share love, memories, blessings or guidance.
6. Funeral or Memorial Wishes
Specifying your preferences, such as burial versus cremation, desired music, and rituals, can help loved ones to honor you in the manner you prefer.
7. Life Review or Memory Collection
A scrapbook, journal, or timeline of meaningful stories, photos, values, and life lessons is where identity and legacy can come alive.
8. Forgiveness & Reconciliation
Make peace with people, past experiences, and even yourself. This emotional preparation can be deeply freeing.
9. Care Plan for Dependents or Pets
Ensure that your loved ones — humans or pets — will be cared for according to your wishes, with guardianship and support in place.
10. Spiritual or Inner Readiness
Whether through faith, meditation, ritual or reflection, make your own sense of peace with the unknown. This may mean asking big questions, connecting with something greater, or simply coming home to yourself.
It’s not about having all the answers but rather being present to the mystery with courage and grace.
This is a list with a sense of soul — not just what to prepare for death but what helps us befriend it.
Planning ahead doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Connect with an EoLPS Navigator today and create a thoughtful, complete plan that protects your wishes and eases the journey for your loved ones.